You gave your youth, your resources, your love and your sacrifices. Then, in your old age, when your strength is fading, you discover that the child you believed was biologically yours isn’t. The tragedy is not that the child isn’t yours. The tragedy is that someone deliberately denied you the truth and the freedom to…
I have always believed that marriage requires adjustment, sacrifice and compromise. But I have also come to understand that there is a dangerous difference between adjusting to accommodate your spouse and gradually disappearing to keep them happy. Some people entered marriage confident, ambitious, outspoken and full of dreams. Years later, they can barely recognise themselves….
His side. Her side. And the FACTS! A husband comes online to tell his story, and suddenly, his wife becomes the devil. A wife shares her version, and immediately, her husband becomes the most wicked man on earth. And off go the online in-laws, carrying a one-sided story to the marketplace, judging, insulting, cursing and…
I have experienced disappointments in marriage and in other relationships. Some of the things I went through hurt deeply. Some wounds took time to heal, and forgiveness was not always easy. But in the end, I chose to forgive. I won’t pretend it was easy. In fact, forgiving some people was one of the hardest…
In our last Facebook conversation about men who left the wives who struggled with them when they had little, for younger women after they became successful, two reasons came up repeatedly from men: “I lost my peace.”“My wife did not respect me.” That got me thinking… WHAT DOES “RESPECT” REALLY MEAN TO THE NIGERIAN MAN?…
NIGERIAN MEN AND THE “BOOK OF SOLOMON” 😂😂😂 There is something I have noticed about many Nigerian men. They may not know where Habakkuk, Nahum or Obadiah is in the Bible. 😂 But mention Solomon and suddenly they become Bible scholars: “Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines!” They know the number by heart! 😂…
“When the value of something is unknown, its abuse is inevitable.” I’ve come to realise that this truth doesn’t apply only to objects. It applies to people too. When you don’t know your worth, you give others permission to define your value. I know this because I’ve lived it. As a teenager, life dealt me…
